Eager puppies and maggots
17 May 2010 1 Comment
in submission
Blog post approved by my owner.
http://chyldeofthenorns.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/men-are-from-venus-women-are-from-mars-erm-hang-on/
It surprises me just how right this post was when i wrote it. It was written when i was in a completely frustrated mood and had had enough and thus far has been completely correct with O/our dealing with men.
I’m not sure i could rewrite another one in its amazing accuracy but i can add some further thoughts on this. When it comes to men i have all but given up on any male submissive. I can almost understand many Dommes position of men being maggots. I can almost see it and think it is correct. That they are pathetic, whiny, eager little puppies that aren’t worth anything.
I’m going to start with something i am going to call eager puppy syndrome. Men seem to get excited about finding a Dominant female. When they get excited they seem to act like little puppies eager for attention. For some it starts off slow, for others its like wham bham thank you Ma’am. For example there has been more than one man , that in his infinite excitement at the first meeting, or maybe second meeting that has begged and begged and begged for physical inspection leading to begging to be touched, and onwards to be played with. The common reason for this is almost pathetic. They have been out of contact with a Dominant female for so long its like their brain shuts off and they are walking around with their dick hanging out like a dog with his tongue hanging out. They crave the Dominance of a female so much that they cannot contain themselves and push and push to be used, inspected, taken .. whatever. I understand eagerness and excitement over finding someone that meshes with you but if i did that with any of the Dominants ( male and female) that i have known i would have been put in my place and told that i would have to contain myself.
Men can almost always not communicate. Even if it starts off well. It always always fades away to almost nothing leaving Mistress to chase after them. That puts Mistress in the submissive position. The worst thing is, they get frustrated if there is no communication from U/us even though they do not contact themselves. Its there as long as eager puppy syndrome remains and then poof. Communication is gone. I’m not even sure male subs can even communicate on anything other than a superfluous level.
Which leads me to talk about passive aggression. Men have a natural propensity to it. It is a rare man that does not cave to anger. Its like crying for women. I’m not sure that they can even possibly change it. It seems like nature to me. Outside of submissives i know maybe a couple of men that do not have that propensity. One of them is a Dominant, one of them is not at all involved in the lifestyle. Submissive men all seem to have this wellspring of hidden frustration that grows and grows and it certainly makes me uncomfortable when it overflows.
All of these things, and the things talked about in my previous linked post lead me to wonder whether the Feminazi’s have it right. Are all men, stupid, dick controlled, pathetic, maggots who cannot control themselves or their emotions.
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